Relationships

How to be a Better Listener and Unravel Your Chain of Pain

Learn how to be a Better Listener and Unravel Your Chain of Pain from the research and with guidance from coaches Jeff and Ellen White. By being present, self-aware and responsive, you can become a better listener and change your default reactions to different situations.

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Follow Your Chain of Pain to Build Stronger Relationships with Jeff and Ellen White

We all carry baggage or a chain of pain. Coaches Jeff and Ellen White share strategies to follow your chain of pain to build stronger relationships. You can break the chain of pain to choose how you show up in your relationships, and to build more fulfilling and rewarding relationships.

[01:41] Which relationship creates the initial template for our other relationships
[03:38] What is Attachment Theory
[07:44] One behavior that’s crucial in all relationships
[10:56] Relationship Skills are a Journey
[12:44] Listening to the Cues and Clues and Relationships
[16:31] Figuring out your blueprint for conversations
[19:00] What is the chain of pain – First steps
[22:30] What’s it like to be in relationship with you?
[30:35] Getting feedback from those that you are in relationship with
[34:43] How do we show up differently in different relationships?
[38:44] Two invitations to build fulfilling relationships

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How to Show Up Wholeheartedly in Relationships

Today, November 2, 2021, I will be hosting a LinkedIn Live with Sunitha Narayanan. Join us as we discuss how to show up wholeheartedly in relationships. If you miss the live, the recording will be available on LinkedIn afterward and released on the podcast in a few weeks. I hope you’ll join us. Date: Nov…

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How to Find and Build Relationships that Support You

Join host Damianne President to explore how to find and build relationships that support you. She pulls in excerpts from past interviews with Sebene Selassie and Kenny Mammarella to create an invitation to listeners to build new relationships and strengthen existing ones as fits your needs.

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Be the Love, Share the Love and Pass it On

Kenny Mammarella D’Cruz shares an approach to be the love, share the love and pass it on, in community. You can join a group or create one.

[00:32] Intro
[04:25] Creating the Environment for Deep Conversations
[11:04] Building Connections
[14:18] The Surprise of Discovering Freedom
[16:46] Male Friendship
[21:03] The Importance of Different Types of Relationships in Our Lives
[24:44] The Difference between Child and Adult
[28:56] Developing a Practice
[33:13] Be Who You Are
[35:27] The First Rule of Relationships
[36:44] How to Break the Addiction to Thinking, Fixing and Second-guessing
[42:49] Three Invitations for better relationships

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On November 2nd, there is a special live episode with Sunitha Narayanan. Save the date! We will be speaking about communication and how to show up wholeheartedly in a relationship. Look for details at changesbigandsmall.com or on the Facebook page so you can join us live.

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The Quality of Your Life is the Quality of Your Relationships

Listen to this episode to learn about the different types of relationships, stages of relationships, and why relationships are important in our lives.

Timeline
[00:40] What is a Relationship 
[01:47] Three Types of Relationships
[02:51] The Five Stages of Relationships
[05:08] Healthy Relationships Build a Healthy Life 
[07:46] The Self is a Process Developed through Relationships
[08:39] Important Ideas in Relationships
[10:29] Invitation
[11:39] Live Online Event November 2

Save Nov. 2 for a live online conversation on wholehearted conversations with Leadership impact coach Sunitha Narayanan.

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Mental Health Can Make Relationships a Struggle

I recently heard from a friend from the University of Ottawa. We spent hours together every day during our undergrad but drifted apart as I moved to India and she moved to Saskatchewan. We’ve reconnected multiple times and then lost touch again. I don’t make friends easily, and I tend to make friends for life….

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Healing Yourself Allows You to Build Strong Relationships

In this episode, Nisha Mody shares her own healing journey that she took be able to reconnect with who she is and with what’s important in her life. One of the interesting things that comes up is the relationship between being in community and being connected to people, but also having a strong identity and sense of self and being able to be grounded. We’ll learn what is the mother wound and how we might be able to heal it and address it in our own lives. We also discuss the concept of shame and how we might be able to overcome feelings of shame. We are inherently people of worth being humans, and that’s an important thing for us to remember.

Nisha Mody, MLIS, MA CCC-SLP (she/her) is a Librarian, Feminist Healing Coach, and Writer. She is passionate about trauma-informed care, justice, and creating nurturing relationships. She coaches people one-one, in groups, and provides workshops related to healing and trauma-informed care. Find her on Instagram and TikTok @healinghypegirl, Twitter @nishamody and on her website www.nishaland.com.

01:47 – The meaning of Healing Hype Girl
02:50 – The beginning and working on a healing journey
08:17 – Marriage and identity
16:55 – Examples of self-care to nourish your body
18:37 – Learning what it takes for healing and being part of a community
20;51 – Companions on the healing journey
23:29 – What we deserve and our worth
27:12.- Learning about and growing in self-acceptance
28:40 – The key to being in alignment with yourself
30:10 – What it means to be a human who makes mistakes
30:55 – Invitation/Challenge
33:14 – Finding Nisha on the Web
35:14 – Fast Five

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